Not anymore. I decided to go gray and grow my hair out.
But I have un-chosen "personal service" people in the past because of their behavior. It wasn't so much that it triggered me, but if I pay a person for personal services, whatever it is, I'm not looking to be your psychologist or your friend. I don't want to hear the story of your life. I want you to do your job.
For me, it was a personal trainer that was worst -- also in a relationship with an alcoholic -- who kept pouring her heart out to me while she was supposed to be training me. I was like "WHY am
I paying
you for this????