Being productive. The other one is being clear minded. Not just in the sense of my brain feels like it works properly, but I feel clearer about my choices and decisions, and naturally makes ones that are better for me.
On the weekend I saw a guy I used to see casually at wedding. I used to get myself in knots about this guy because I liked him but he was just using me. He's actually sexist, immature and annoying. Now I just look at him and think, blech! What was all that fuss about?!