Fez.....I think it is normal to want a boyfriend.
At the risk of sounding like an old fossil....I would like to put in a word for finding a partner the old fashioned way.
That means putting yourself into target-rich environments and being involved in life, yourself. This is where you can meet the quality men---and, have the ability to inspect the stock up close before engaging with them.
This helps to avoid dates with people that you wouldn't want to be caught dead with.
I'm not saying that something good can't possibly come from internet dating....but, regular methods can help to avoid all the duds.
dandylion