Originally Posted by
mischa1 
No rest. I'm terrified he will come back. Waiting to talk to his sister again. Just lost and don't know what to do. I know he's doing it to hisself but if he goes to jail he will just be bailed out and then what?!?! How mad will he be then? If he would sober up a little he would calm down. I think I'm going to have to break NC and try to calm him down. He's out of control.
You can't control him. You never could. He can't control himself. It is not your job to endanger yourself to calm him down. Call the police and stop worrying about what his family thinks. They are always going to be on his side.
This guy is dangerous. Stay far away from him.