I am so sorry. My 15 yr old DD told me last night she hates seeing her dad and hates going there. He is a selfish person. He does love his kids, but he sure loves himself more.
I told her I was sorry she feels that way, that I understand, and that when she is older she will have the choice not to see him, but for now she is legally required to see him.
It breaks my heart for my girls. It's so hard to see him making such bad choices then seeing it affect our kids. Ugh...
I can only say I am reading this, I support you, I understand.
Tight Hugs!