Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
They sound like my dad and me. Is her father a narcissist?
I don't think so, at least not today. I go back and forth. Is he a narcissist, is he a sociopath, is he stupid, or is he just an alcoholic? Is it a today a full moon? He might be a werewolf. He shows some narcissistic tendencies, but don't all alcoholics? It also can be difficult for me at times to even remember the
him of twenty years ago. So when I try to sort the riddle of his actions out my brain can get a bit wonky. It's possible his girlfriend has some narcissistic tendencies. Maybe it was her idea to blindside my daughter. I don't know her, and I'm sure she's nice enough, but she does have a very spotty track record.
Regarding my STBXAH, what I've come to is this, He's not well. Period.