Hi nowisthetime
I don't think there's anything wrong with caring - not at all - but when you care so much that you want to stab someone in the eye, it's time to step back and look at things.
I had to learn that what other people do is not under my control - but my reactions to those things are.
All I can do is my best - sometimes other people will throw things back at me or blame me for things...it is what it is.
I try and put it all in perspective. I'm alive and I'm sober and in good health. Everything after that really is gravy - y'know?
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