Originally Posted by
redatlanta 
Pet - what were/are your boundaries with AH with regards to a relapse?
My boundaries are that he has to keep going to AA meetings and going to see his addictions counselor. Which he is doing still. Should he become complacent about his recovery and not take it seriously, with it becoming a regular habit or coping mechanism again, which is not just a relapse, I will move out and not be in a direct relationship with him any longer.