Hey BeefLV99, welcome!
It sounds as if you're getting your arms around things before they really get out of hand, which is great. If you take some time to read some of the many stories in here, it's clear that sooner or later, things will get out of hand. It's just the nature of the beast, so congrats for taking note of that early on. I think you'll find a lot of support, which should make things easier.