He just doesn't understand my feelings and thoughts or his daughter's. He thinks I am giving her too much control for 12 yrs old and that she should not be this distant from him. Says i could be more of a help and talk to her, about how much of a good man he is and she needs her father. Thinks she is following what I do. Thinks counseling will help us see what we both did wrong in our marriage so we can fix it. That our love will conquer all........ He just won't let up.