Originally Posted by
Hawks 
Maybe it was the
new (Nuu) you that frightened him?
If he has "rescuing" tendencies, perhaps he didn't quite know what to do next, when he found out that you actually have your life running along pretty nicely.
Sometimes people "show" you who they are instead of telling you..... He showed you a piece of himself by abandoning you.
Worthy of the new you?
Let him run
You may be on to something their Hawks..from what he has told I was able to surmise that:
First wife was alcoholic
Second..pill addict
Both still active in addiction.
His father: Alcoholic.
I am in RECOVERY.
So perhaps I can see the abandonment as a sign of my HEALTH.