This gets my blood boiling HOT---my son is one who believes it's a moral issue, choice, they should just get it together, etc.
I have a friend who is an amazing woman. Martha Stewart couldn't touch her talent. She is articulate, well-read, and beautiful. Yet she struggles heavily with alcohol. There's nothing wrong with her morals--she gives and loves with all she has. I can't imagine saying to her "you are making immoral choices" She would LOVE for it to be a choice she could take or leave, trust me.
Okay, rant over. People need to get off their high horse and look at their own stuff.
I could go on and talk about people's views on mental illness.....same stuff many times.