Originally Posted by Julie1016
My husband tells me I draw those sorts of people, problems people as he calls them lol. I don't know, sometimes i honestly think I do and I wonder how the heck to stop it.
Julie,
Welcome to my world..I know I pick these people out ..as boyfriends too..I seem to graviate towards unhealthy codependent people..but I'm working on it..trying to hang out with healthier people...Guess that's why I love AlAnon..Most of the people are at least aware of their issue, not trying to load them on me and trying to get better..
I have let many friendships go over the past few years because I was allowing these people to make me insane..
I do wonder if there are any "healthy" people that are not in 12 step programs..