Hi Maia
Im about 3/4 way through a book called "A return to Love "
By Marianne Williamson.
Amazing book.
In a nutshell the book is about changing your own self love (to a healthy level, not narcissistic)
And in doing so.... We get emotionally charged up and healed and healthy.... This attracts the same in other people.
There's a bit more to the book, but that's pretty much it on the relationship side of things.