Originally Posted by
enfinthechange 
Thanks guys, I need to get out of this hotel room, get home and make a,plan. Stick to it. Involve my oh, maybe tell my parents.... I just dunno...
Your OH isn't being supportive, in fact is sabotaging you by wanting you to drink with him. But you had a choice, and you both knew where it would go.
Do you want it enough to be so focused on sobriety that nothing he says influences you to drink? Because he will try if nothing changes. That's his thing, not yours.
I never succeeded in quitting until I realised it had to be total and for life.