Originally Posted by queenofthehwy
If I say anything to him about his drinking, he may stop, but why is he stopping ? I know, it's just to keep me quiet. So if I don't mention it and he continues to do it, I know he doesn't want it for him. It's what he wants to do. It will be easier for me to make my decision if I just sit back and see what happens.
That is what I did about 7 years ago. I sat back and said nothing. I detatched and I mean completely detatched. After 5 years of that I told him we were divorcing. He quit the next day, for me. We divorced. Almost 2 years now and I believe he is drinking again.
Glad I didnt waste any more of my life with that sh--.