Welcome Treebranch. Don't fret too much over the steps, and keep the focus on staying sober; that's the importantest part, not the how, the what
Here's how I found my Spirituality, maybe it will help....
"I don't know what my higher power is, I just know I have one"
I keep it that simple, and have reached a very deep spirituality- it's mine, and it works!
Just like my Sobriety I've taken ownership & accountability, I focus on myself, and expect the same from others.