schnapp - you are so right. There was no good reason why I could not just wait for the bil. It wasn't late. And this is really going to get you guys going but it's actually paid ahead. This was my issue. And I should have talked about ME not him and his reactions as if I am powerless because I'm not.
And even if the bill was late and if I did not have the information at the exact minute I wanted it - I actually think a $25.00 late fee would have been a very small price to pay in exchange for my blastful mood yesterday.