Originally Posted by
iamthird 
It was reaffirming for me for so many reasons. I had romanticized his relationship with new enabling gf for so long, it is clear he is just as miserable with her. I am so glad this is not my everyday life anymore. ..
Our A's decisions are theirs and theirs alone-and you clearly are a stronger person for making YOUR choices.l am sorry for your pain-it seems that with an A spouse sometimes we are left with just two choices,both painful ,but we know when we've made the right one.