Ive just split from my ex gf and have had no further contact and I'm frightened to incase it opens old wounds which are still healing and im in early recovery. Are you being honest as to why you replied?? I agree with helpful 4, recovery is hard enough with out complicating it. I myself am scared of her making contact with me in my situation so i know how hard it is, but I also know at my stage it would do me no good. : )