Oh dreamer! ((((hugs))))) i just saw your thread! I'm so sorry! It's just horrible, that they don't see other solutions than wanting to die, when they are in such a dark place! I can imagine how you feel, been there a few days ago!
I'm glad you and his family got the police there and he's doing okayish. And i'm glad you can go see him! I'm sure it will help you both!
(((((((hugs))))))) time will pass and soon you'll be with him! Hang in there!