I remember feeling this way. I had no idea what to expect and I didn't like how powerless I felt.
I called several times the first week because i was "worried" about him and wanted to "make sure he was ok" (whatever).
His counselor tolerated me but I think he wished I would go away. He took my calls and he did talk with but I could tell it was a courtesy.
Looking back I can see why. His job was to rehab his patients not spend countless minutes on the phone with the spouses etc.
He called me to schedule the family day and he had me come in for a private session with me and my A half way through
After the first week or so, I let it go. I figured I had to let them do their jobs and quite honestly I was starting to simmer with all kinds of feelings that I have yet to unravel but I wasn't as curious as to how he was doing.