So am I being silly? I guess the best way to address it with the GAL on Thursday is to wait for him to ask why I won't let her see him unsupervised, and then offer up the material?
No, you're not being silly. Have the information handy when the GAL walks in, and give him/her a copy and refer to it often. Say, "I made this because there's so much it's hard to remember." It's true.
I told him I don't see how it would make me look bad, to show the information I have. He said it looks bad because I kept her in that situation. I looked at him dead on and said "that is why we left." He denied it and said it was because he refused to go to counseling...which I did ask him about the day before I left. But that's not why I left.
So I'm pretty sure he was quaking big time.
If anyone questions why you stayed, repeat that: "That's why we left."
Good on you. You can do this.