You guys are right... I really don't think he meant it in a wrong way but I did take it like that. We are not very close. He sees me as a party girl, he could count on my to be up until sunrise. He said that it is normal to get drunk and fall, or blackout or act like a goober. It's NOT how I want to be and this is why I changed. He doesn't know my entire story but even with that in mind, his comments were insensitive.
I'm still feeling great about being sobER and eventhough my AV tries to peek out i recognize it and swat it! I'm really done and I am loving my new persona. THIS is who I want to be.
Thanks SR!