Twofish - some people just can't take the drama with addiction but we know here none of us have a choice in that. We only can create our own world and actions. His despicable cowardly act proves himself of lesser quality as a husband and a father. His choice will now create a wall of unabated selfishness while you my friend stand with yourself. But and its a big but.....standing with yourself will prove to be the lemonade in the lemon - your strong, loving, kind and determined to listen when you need a reach out. I say to any of us out there who have reached out to SR , your smarter than most because you know when to ask for help and advice. We ALL stand with you - we all share with you the sense of loneliness that addiction and its aftermath can create. But know strength in numbers are at your disposal and regardless of what you may think right now, it will get better day in day out. God be with you and lucky are you to have yourself.