Old 10-06-2014, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Mrrryah1 View Post
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Thanks Jupey! I love the idea also. Unfortunately, I've asked for this before, and he's flipped out and said that if he leaves (or I leave) that's it - we're done. We're either in this relationship or it's over.

I'm not quite sure why he reacts like this, but I'm guessing it's fear, that he feels the need to give me an ultimatum.


The other thing I failed to mention is he's out of town ALOT - I only see him for a couple of hours a week total. So I pretty much already have a break from the relationship - in the physical sense anyways.

Still, the idea may need to be revisited.

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hrm.
I would def. try to re-visit this convo. I don't know about you, but I don't deal well with ultimatums at all. LOL
Particularly in cases where there is no black and white area, but a huge grey one.
I hope that you decide to follow your heart no matter what, and do what feels right and good for you.
But don't be impulsive we all know how that ends. At least I do! haha
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