Thank you for your response. I'm so tired. It's been so emotionally and financially taxing. My gut instinct is to come up with the money to throw her in another 30 rehab after detox as that is what she is asking for but that's because I am her mom and my instincts are wrong when it comes to this addiction beast. My husband is adamant that he can "fix" this but like you said, she's obviously not ready. If I can't talk him out of it then I guess he will have to find out the hard way. I fear this will never end. I know the experts would probably tell us to kick her out of the house but I just can't for some reason. She's only 19 and I love her so much. My heart is broken. Thank you for your kind words.