Originally Posted by
SonomaGal 
Thanks for clarifying. Wine is everywhere - do you mean that metaphorically, or is it literally at most/all your social events and dinners? Also do you have to ask if there's wine in the food wherever you go? I'm not trying to be obtuse - it's just that your second post makes it sound like your life has a truly enormous amount of wine in it.
We used to eat out a lot with friends and on our own. For example we had dinner last night with pals at a favorite place of theirs that they picked at the last minute. It turned out to be a French place where just about everything had sauce made with wine. And my husband didn't drink wine at home for 2 years but now I feel like he should be able to have a glass on Friday night in his own home if he wants.
Wine is part of every dinner party we go to - this is a wine-oriented culture here. I can't live like a hermit and hide in my house forever.