I'm no longer feeling on guard or hypervigilant because I've found a peace in acceptance that it is a terrible idea for me to ever drink again. There's wine everywhere, sure. And it is no longer for me to drink!
Plenty of other good things in life for me to partake in now, and so I focus on living in the present, staying mindful that I am no longer a drinker, and focus on changing the things I can change, and accepting the things I can't.