Lori, I has found you can reclaim lot of friendships with honest explanation and ownership regarding you "disappearance" and humble apology.
SJ, you list pretty sweet. For me is feel like sifting through ashes and debris but no finding anything salvageable. I know is early. And I very ill. So I try to remember I seeing through this lens, but I think I gonna end up more like Hawk describe in last thread.
D, that answer so damn rock & roll, it should by Allman Brother lyric.
SR, yes, the crucible.
Trach, sometimes you just has to burn it down to the ground, baby.
No fires today, I stay close to water...