I know I shouldn't. At this point the guy has gone on for years being a raging alcoholic with zero real world consequences. To get a DUI although he drinks and drive everywhere. He's got to be told how much of a piece of s he is without being overly confrontational to the point that everyone gives up speaking to him.
and I would agree unless some miracle of nature comes about he is most likely going to pass away in less than a year. Before he passes away I want him to know how crappy he's been. he's the one that chose to destroy his wife and be as depressed as possible to provide an excuse for his drinking. I'm just making sure before he passes away he really is miserable and he knows how bad he's treating his kids and family. No matter what we say or do is not going to stop his drinking so we might as well let him know what our problem with him is. Or else we'll never have the chance to tell him.