hmmmmm, i see you mentioning the CHILD almost as an after thought and focusing entirely on the ex wife. and then you lump them both into the HUGE BAGGAGE category.
if that is the mindset you had about MY kid, i'd hope you'd be honest with me and then recuse yourself.
it's ok to not want to deal with somebody else's children and somebody else's drama. no matter how nice some of the other parts of the package area, it's an ALL IN or go home proposition.