As far as the party goes, I reckon not going is a really sound idea. I know everyone's different, but it does seem really early. I've been sober ... um ... have to count :=] ... 14 weeks and I still haven't been to a pub, party or what have you. I suspect I'm probably slow, but I think it's way better to be safe than sorry :=] Take care and congrats on 19 (possibly 20) days.