I agree, he will not go to the Ratmotel....(he is peeing on your leg and then telling you it is raining)...The comforts of mama's clean house and private bedroom suite/stocked free food kitchen, heat, AC, coffee, cell phone, cigarettes far outweigh Ratmotel.
PS...it does not cost anything to flirt and Barnes/Noble has free wifi...maybe someone would LIKE to converse with you and buy you a fancy coffee, hmmm?