Thank you for your help.
I just left message for my therapist to get me in next Wed..
I did tell him that this would not happen immediately. it depends on his saving and behavior. did not say when.. so that buys me time. good idea about a definite balance in the bank.
I wish to not be in such an unhealthy relationship with my adult kid.
What I am saying is....claim your own life and happiness....and, be willing to do the work that it will take...
by Dandylion....
last night, I was thinking of how my life has been full of disappointments, and how I feel pretty empty. I guess I figure if my kids are ok, then its enough happiness for me.
I honestly do not have a life. I am trying, but the depression from this situation keeps me down. I know better. But its just hard right now. If someone asked me , what would you do right now, to h ave fun, I would not know.
I am gonna have to rethink this whole thing. I have been soaking up 'Codie No More', for the last week.
finances are too tight to do much shopping or repairs, but I am gonna go get myself a new 'boulders foundation'..ha. and garbage bags..
thanks, I do not know what has gotten into me lately
