I've taken the path of least resistance with my 15yo and 13yo too. I feel like I'm dropping the ball with that (and a dozen other parenting things) but I'm really dragging my feet on making changes. Status quo is so much easier. :P. I have some ideas and so many excuses. I need to though or I will lose them.
Following along to hear what you guys are doing and considering.
The two areas I worry about most is we no longer have daily family meals in a proper way and WAY WAY WAY to much computer time even by my standards and I've got relaxed standards with screen time.