Your very much welcome in my eyes Kirsten!!
How many of us new what we were or what we needed to do when we darkened the doors of SR for the first time? I typed in something to the effect of "drinking too much" into Google and up popped SR, I was on a journey of discovery and that ended with the decision of Sobriety, but that doesn't have to be the same for everyone!!
My point being the common denominator for us all is recognising something has to change with our drinking, whether that's cutting back or going Sober, we're all still on the same page with regards something needs to change!!