I was always saying "what was on my mind", good or bad.
Isn't it nice to know that you can do the above now and it's valid too!?
I think it's interesting how when I get addled about something at my husband that he actually listens to me now. Previously it was a foolish, drunken rant. Now I have MERIT! It's a great feeling. I was never a nag but I sure had a huge mouth when I was drinking.