I know that the guy I just broke up with ( I really believe he was an alcoholic) said to me once how he hates his cousins wife. That although she doesn't know him that well she had the nerve to say to him that she doesn't like him because he's a drunk and told him to his face he drank to much and shouldn't drive while at a gathering. he was offended because when he drinks he never drives "now". and quote "she has no idea how much I had to drink. Now, those of us that don't drink very often would have been offended at the not liking me part.. not about her being worried if I had to much and was going to drive.