I know, Anvil. Believe me--that's what sent me back to posting here...It's definitely not acceptable.
The kids are out of the house; thinking of turning their 2 rooms, connected by a bathroom, into MY room and just letting him have the master. I really don't want to divorce and have to scrimp to get by.
Since I couldn't discuss this latest incident with him last night, and he bounced out of bed today bright-eyed and bushy-tailed for work (he gets up about 4 hours earlier than me), this conversation will have to wait until later. I work until 9 again.
And I know, there's not a real discussion, per se, to be done. Just me telling him what my new boundaries are going to be.