Well right now I think she has replaced "alcohol" with this new guy. She could be already back drinking, thinking she can maintain because she has convinced herself and everyone else that her "bad relationship" with me is what made her drink. This new guy won't care nor pay close attention, he is after one thing. This new sex built relationship won't last long and when it blows up in her face full blown relapse will happen I'm sure. But the good news, I'm no longer around to be blamed.
I have been doing allot of reading and her behavior is typical of an addict in stage 3 denial.
The few times we spoke over the past month it was always my fault and the one thing that she NEVER mentioned was what put her into the rehab in the first place, her drinking. It was all about what I did or did t do never about her.