Originally Posted by m1k3

Being in a way different place than I was when I first came her I have a different perspective than I would have had then.

As I read this what jumped out at me was the blame shifting. It's your fault I can't get better because you love me and have compassion for me. If it wasn't for you I would have hit my bottom sooner. So, my continued suffering is your fault.

It sounds good, it tugs at the heart strings but in reality it's just quacking.

Your friend,