Thanks Nuudawn
It is a tough & sh##ty scenario right now.
The girls will be OK, for some reason she doesn't take to them like she does me & my son. Although I do fear she will turn on them if we are not around.
If I leave, I feel I have to get my son out too. But it is hard to do. The courts seemingly always award custody to the woman. I have experienced first hand how sexist it is.
I know when push comes to shove, she won't hesitate to use my alcoholism as leverage, she has already threatened just that.
I think she knows deep down that our son would be better off away from her. But for her to admit that, seems to go against every instinct of the personality disordered person. So it seems very unlikely to ever happen.
She will fight tooth & nail to prove she is right & perfect.