Originally Posted by
Hawks 
She has already threatened previously when I said I was leaving (not sober) , to withdraw the children & get the law involved by making up a story to get an intervention / court order.
It has already been my experience that these orders can be obtained easily & no one is ever interested in the males side of the story
Your experience or rumors/word of mouth? Have you had any legal counsel?
I'm sorry you are experiencing this but it sounds like she is using threats and intimidation to keep you in line and it's working.
Do not let yourself be bullied.