My gf has stopped drinking completly because of what it done to me
if you asked her why she will say look at what it done alcohol changes people
i cant stand supposed loved ones drinking in an alcoholics company if they dont get it then i would start suggesting no alcohol at home (just so you know im 14 months if i even suggested having a bottle for friends/her i would get scalped she would say do you think im letting that in our home ??? have more respect)
its not right in my eyes having alcohol round a alcoholic most of the time i have this argument with other alcoholics saying its fine im ok with it
thing is i grew up like this my father was like this when my late mother was sober and sober back then i hated it as i do sober now its not right but alcoholics (has to be alcoholic lol) will tell you otherwise
hopefully im not a lone voice in this but if i am so be it
if they cant understand take them aa say this is what i am !
if they still dont get it i would seriously start thinking about how much your sobriety means to you if it is going to be affected by household drinking by ppl that LOVE you and UNDERSTAND you
When a man loves a woman is a great film to watch with said boyfriends/husbands
be well and well done everyone