Great response joe nerv and I definitely needed to here that. As I come up on 6 months things are slowly starting to be fun again. There is no doubt that the quality time that I now spend with my kids is 100% better. I always thought I was having fun with them while drinking yet the only thing truly on my mind was where is my next drink. Once I started, there was no stopping so everything had to be planned out. Not being a slave to that now is amazing. So my answer is yes, I think we can have fun again. Do I miss drinking and going tubing on the boat or playing golf with my buddies. Absolutely. But each time I do those things sober, they increasingly get more fun. Learning to live again is an amazing journey and gets better with each passing day.