That's a good question....
My focus is primarily on my kids, my responsibilities and what I can do to make things better for them and me, ie..calming my tempered anxiety and handling my 3 year olds tantrums and stuborness more calmly and constructively.
I guess occassionally I go to the store and buy myself something, but usually I shop for the house and the kids. I did get my hair done (finally) a couple weeks ago. Does that count?