While black and white seems so easy and clear cut, Dee is right, life tends to be shades of gray. I think this is something addicts (being all or none kind of people), find hard to grasp. I know I do too. But it is better when it is gray, really.
I had a friend tell me "balance is the key." He is right. In all things, it is the only way to be.
Hang in there ontherightpath ... stay on the path
you'll get through tonight.