Maybe that's why I don't have any friends...lol
Seriously, I like my quiet time and time
with just my husband, birds, butterflies,
plants.
I do know people in AA but don't get
together with them or call them mainly
because I don't want to get attached to
folks.
Some of these people want to chit chat,
talk small talk, family stuff and it just
doesn't interest me. And im not interested
in sharing my personal life with other people,
including my family.
I am happy just the way I am, living a
simple, stress free life just wanting to
work in my gardens, spend time with
my spouse and look forward to taking
trips on our Harley.
To be honest with you guys, I share
more with you here in SR then anyone
else in my life other than my spouse.
I don't feel alone, you keep me company
and I don't have to leave my comfy chair.
Let's see, I got off track......
How would you loose her.....well, If it
were me, I wouldn't answer my phone
if she calls me. In fact I don't answer
my phone if I don't recognize the number
or person calling on my caller ID.
She can leave all the messages she wants
but Im not obligated to call her back. I have
my own life and I don't have time for her.
If I go to a meeting and she is there, I
would cordially say hello, not offering
anything more to the conversation. I
wouldn't lie to her in anyway, so I make
sure that my reasons for not calling her
back is an honest answer. Which is, I
am busy these days.
Take care of you and your recovery
which is most important.