Where to start
I married 1 year ago, (8 year relationship)My husband is angry all most all the time , He is grumpy, bossy, controlling and does not see himself that way. I Knew he had problems and I thought if I made life as stress free as possible. Things would get better (life happens) (Stress happens).He throws living room furniture rants raves, talks about killing himself and others. over dropping a tabasco lid on the kitchen floor. I have always thought of myself as a strong person, he calls me spineless , I have hid in a closet afraid of him. He wants me to get canceling....I don't think I need it for me, He will not go. I am just finding out this has been a life time of behavior for him, he also called his ex-wife spineless and scared her for 14 years. Where do I start?